Random Thoughts/Things?

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Random Thoughts/Things?

Random Thoughts/Things?

I wasn’t really sure what to call this thread, but I’ve had this idea floating around in my head for awhile now. Basically, anyone can post anything here. Any random thought you have, any random thing that happens to you, any random question that pops into your mind. Have fun, and don’t be afraid to be random. 

submitted by Leeli
(January 11, 2019 - 8:20 am)

back to the Down to Earth

thank you so much Celine! I would love to get to know you better! 

submitted by peppermint
(November 27, 2023 - 4:39 pm)

thank you so much!! I also love reading your poetry, and I love that you always leave such thoughtful comments on other people's work. 

submitted by peppermint
(November 27, 2023 - 4:37 pm)

(above is response to poinsettia :))

submitted by peppermint
(November 28, 2023 - 12:15 am)

aha, I thought so :) and tysm :))

submitted by Poinsettia
(November 28, 2023 - 10:06 pm)

First off PEPPER!!! I've missed you :D idk if you remember me but I definitely remember you :P Please feel welcome to come on here at any time, even if just to post one thing :DDDD

also congrats on your CBversary both of you :D

submitted by Blackfooted Bobcat, age ballet!!!!, The Sleeping Beauty
(November 26, 2023 - 5:09 pm)

I remember you!! thank you for the congratulations <3 

submitted by peppermint
(November 27, 2023 - 4:50 pm)

So it's only been a month since my dog died, but everyone in my house wants to get a new dog and we're getting one today. I'm not really sure how to feel? I still miss my dog so much, but the one we're adopting is sweet and I like that he's a rescue just like my dog who died. It's a lot of mixed feelings. I don't want to betray my old dog by getting a new one, especially so early, but I also think it's sort of good for all of us to have a dog in the house (we get more exercise taking walks with a dog, it's good for our mental health, ect). I just don't know if any dog can be as special as my dog was, or if I even really want them to be.

submitted by Periwinkle, age Pi, Somewhere in the stars
(November 26, 2023 - 8:05 am)

This is a tough situation, Peri. To console you, I have some very scientific thoughts regarding the matter. 

So, when one undergoes anesethesia, they first remember getting the anesthesia, next thing they know they wake up. So, even if your dog was unconscious (read: not alive) for a period of time, they have to regain consciousness at some point, whether it be in their body through ressurection or as an independent being, or through reincarnation. And when they do wake up, I think they'd understand and forgive you. It's called the "unconscious paradox" from the point of the view of the thinker, it makes no sense for them to lose consciousness forever, especially because forever is a long time. I think the best course of action is to welcome your new dog but at the same time honor your old dog's memory. 
submitted by Sinusoidal
(November 26, 2023 - 11:25 am)

Aw, Peri, that does sound conflicting *hugs* I don't have much advice, but I just wanted you to know that I feel you. From experience, I've realized that getting new pets isn't as conflicting as it can seem at first - you'll always miss your first pet, and the new one won't be the same, but it's still just as special, only in a different way. I'm sure your old dog would want you to be happy with the new one. I hope this helps <3

submitted by Poinsettia, a sea of crystal waters
(November 26, 2023 - 1:35 pm)

Aww that's sad TT I hope you find that your new dog is just as special, perhaps in a different way, from your other dog.

submitted by Hawkstar, age Barefoot, Dandelion roar
(November 26, 2023 - 3:04 pm)

your new dog isn't your old dog. So special in a differnt way. how could they be special same way? how could they be as special if it's a different way? they're not the same. maybe try not think of them as a replacement? idk if that makes sense though. you'll still miss the old dog as much, but that's okay.  

also i don't think it's betraying to get a new dog? maybe i'm missing something, but i definitely think you don't need to feel bad about this. it's not wrong to have a new dog; if anything it's good because you're helping a rescue have a better life. while shelters are definitely not always bad (i sometimes volunteer at a cat shelter and the cats are treated very well and have a big room with a bunch of toys and beds and there's always a volunteer up there taking care of them), it's never as good as a good home.

none of this is really going to make you feel better about the old dog, but i still think separating might be good. you can still love this dog even while grieving the other one. i know feelings don't make sense though.

i'm not sure if any of this makes sense or helps but maybe? *hugs if you want them* *allergen friendly tasty treat of your choice if you want it* *fancy copy of your favorite book in the style of a book in a fantasy library guilded with ethically mined gold if you want it*

submitted by Blackfooted Bobcat
(November 26, 2023 - 5:46 pm)

Thank you all. I guess you are right. We got him today and he's cute and he loves all the toys we have for him, and he's friendly. I still feel sad and nervous about it; I think it will take some time to adjust. 

submitted by Periwinkle, age Pi, Somewhere in the stars
(November 26, 2023 - 7:52 pm)

*I accidentally posted that before looking it over again so if I said something wrong or badly I'm sorry. 

submitted by Blackfooted Bobcat
(November 26, 2023 - 5:47 pm)

oh wow thank you Admins that was really quick :D

submitted by Blackfooted Bobcat
(November 26, 2023 - 6:04 pm)

Ahh yes everything you just said is extremely valid. I'm experiencing kinda the same thing though not exactly?? It's been... wow, over a year now, since my dog died, and Ik I've already told you this/said this a lot but he was the sweetest and lovingest and most loyal thing ever, he was there (ok, not literally, but yes he was) when I was born, when my brother was born, he was our big brother and I mean... he was ours, y'know, and we were his! And I'm so so grateful for him... he's a Great Pyrenees Mix and he's GIGANTIC and he's so so gentle and patient and he outlived his expected lifespan and he was a rescue too and anyways sorry let me get to the point.

My family does not want a new dog. I do (I promise I'm not a terrible person... I hope). How I think of it: 1. You still love your old dog. Love doubles, it doesn't halve. 2. You could be honoring your dog's memory by getting a new dog, by offering a new dog a chance at life. If that makes sense... 3. The new dog's a rescue, that's great! By what I know, by adopting a dog, you're actually giving 2 dogs a second chance at life. That dog, and the one who'll take that dog's place (assuming he's from a shelter or something)? 4. The new dog sounds really sweet and, as you said, I think he'll be really good for you and your family. Maybe your old dog can live on through him? And, I can't speak for your dog, but I know humans mostly don't want their loved ones to spend the time after their passing mourning and feeling sad, though oc I'm not saying you shouldn't do that, but they'd probably want them to celebrate and honor their life, but still keep living their own?? I'm sorry if that's insensitive at all. But anyways, best of luck with the adoption today, wow! And sending hugs and love <33

submitted by CelineBurning Bright, <333
(November 26, 2023 - 6:27 pm)
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