Anonymous Z, that happened to my oldest brother.

Adults seemed like big weirdoes, just big kids with more smarts and less social intelegences. About seventy five percent of adults I see are big weirdoes. I've heard that being weird is great, but if you slap an O on in, it goes to awful. Now once I started reading a book about a dictionary writer who stuffs food in her face to avoid a conversation, Yeesh that is kind of un-smart. 

Next, our library is a tech nook with a few books. And they let 5 year olds talk really loudly, where people are trying to read! I'm introverted and would like a quiet place to go, every week to get new books. The concerned library lovers should of campained their shepang here (Lemoncello books Olympics). 

There is a girl who is snoofly and kind of mean to younger ones. I'm not sure how to tell her that isn't right, and have her listen. I've gotten to know a younger one and he says that she's a bully. 

Also I hate to eat. Literaly. Chewing is a pain, and having to make it takes ten minutes. Then eating takes twenty minutes. It is so boring. I can't eat sweet stuff untill I've eaten something 'healthy'. Some advice please. 

There. Less snorkly. I don't know what to do with these issues.

Ok, here goes. I need some help. 

My group of friends, well former group of friends weren't the greatest. Two of the girls were like best best best friends ever and were excluding me and the other person in the group. Then we got into a big fight about it where I was blamed for a lot of things that I didn't do and everyone in the group hated me and ran away when I was near them and it made me feel terrible. Then we went to the school counselors and we talked and I'd thought we'd all made up. But apparantly one of the two best best best friends decided she didn't want to forgive me because before we talked ot the counselors I said I didn't really want to be part of the group because they made me feel bad. But she decided to hate me again and when I said at her table at lunch she made comments about how she wished I hadn't come to school. A few days later I texted her if we could talk and she responded "um" so a few days later I tried again and got an "uh". I asked her again if we chat like a week later and I got a text that said "stop harassing me". Was I harassing her? She never texted no we couldn't talk and at school she ran away or just acted like I wasn't that. Was I harassing her or was she just being overdramatic? I really need to know.

No. You weren't being overdramatic OR harrassing.

She's just being dumb.

I'm sorry...

*Hugs* 

Actually Anonymous Z, my brother didn't do all that, I guess I only paid attention to the first sentence. Sorry :( 

My teacher always misunderstands my questions.....

How do you get over someone you've known as a friend for a really, really, really long time?

@Rogue wilding HI! **hugs back** Thanks for the advice!:}

@ Waffeslon Thanks for the advice!:} Oof, that sounds super annoying. 

Ok, so I have this friend that I’ve known since I was about 3. I met her in dance class, and we’ve been dancing in the same class at the same studio ever since. We were always partners when we danced in class, and she is one of the few friends I have. I’ve known her longer than I have most of my friends. She is an AMAZING friend, kind, funny, all of the above. A few years ago, though, enter her BFF from school in our dance class. She’s a great friend too, though giggly, but eventually my friend (let’s call her “S”) was always partners with her (let’s call her A). If we were going in groups of three, I was often with them, but I was certainly a second choice. Well, eventually there were some newer, more popular, or better-liked girls in our class, and so S (who is probably most popular) had a whole arsenal of desirables to talk to about school (which I couldn’t because I’ve always been homeschooled), Life (which usually tied in with school), and people they knew (who, you guessed it, they met at school). So suddenly, S had her own group of girls who thought like her, were a lot like her, were the same height as her (so they got similar parts and got to sit together in dressing rooms. I was and still am tall for my age), and were always partners with her. Meanwhile, here I am with all my old friends dropping out and everyone newer (and there weren’t a lot) having their own friend groups. I don’t know if I was too quiet, too eccentric, too boring, not up-to-date enough, not as interesting, not as attractive, too distant, too shy, not as good a dancer, too mature or not mature enough, too clingy, too awkward, or what, but she’s grown distant, and yet she’s one of my only friends at dance. I don’t think I’m any of those things, but others might, and I really don’t know. I’m quite certain she isn’t doing this on purpose, but I’m still confused. It may be an out-of-sight-out-of-mind thing, but I think about her all the time, and miss her when she isn’t there. I’m not quite shy, but I’m certainly introverted and feel it would be awkward/embarrassing /rude/cliche/whiny to tell her how I feel. I often try to start a conversation, but I don’t see her much, and it’s hard to get her by herself. This not be a problem at all, and simply existential. I really don’t know, but I needed to get it out somewhere, and I would love your guys’ advice. She still talks to me when I talk to her, but not usually voluntarily. One of my favorite quotes is “the ones who truly love you are not those who see you every day, but those who look for you every day”. I don’t know who wrote/said it, but it’s certainly the story of my life. If you read all of this, I’m extremely grateful.

~End of Rant~