Situation
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Situation
Situation
Listen, I won't show my name because you guys usually don't see me this mad. Ever. And it's kinda personal. But I have a close connection to those who are in Special Ed, which many people see odd. I don't know why, I just click with them. After all, I am a lot alike to those amazing kids.
Well, here's my problem. A good friend of mine is in special ed, and pathetic teachers decide it's okay to basically call him stupid behind his back. Long story short, I stand up for my friend all the time. Not just him, but other special ed kids in my school. Both students, teachers, and EVEN their own special ed assistant is mean to them, calls them stupid and annoying. I mean COME ON. Their assistant is someone they are supposed to trust and turn to for those situations, not be talked behind/mistreated by/laughed at/yelled at. So I stand up for all of those kids, having been in their situation once myself.
But what I want to know is why. Why and how can you be so mean to them? Special ed kids are humans too, and the best set of humans you'll ever meet at that. At times I want to yell/slap my teachers and those students across the face for being so heartless.
How can I make this treatment stop? Not just at my school, but for every special ed kid who is being bullied by peers and teachers. Thanks guys, you're the best.
~ An Angry Friend
Sorry for typos, and Admin, input would be liked if possible.
(January 11, 2017 - 2:27 am)
Thank you, Will! So the funny thing is, both my parents have talked to the principal... but alas, he doesn't seem to care. I will attempt again soon, this time maybe with a written report of ALL that has happened to prove to him this cannot go on. That should work... I hope.
(January 12, 2017 - 11:03 pm)
Ugh, I HATE it when people act like this. I. HATE. IT.
Caling someone who cant defend or retort back stupid is ABUSE. Its going against HUMAN RIGHTS. ITS DISGUSTING. ITS CRUEL. ITS PLAIN PATHETIC!!!!!
*Huff*
AAAAARGH I HATE IT!!!!!!!
*takes a deep breath*
My best move would be to just spread the word. Family, friends, anyone who'll listen. Not in a gossip sort of way but just the truth. A school is supposed to teach good values to its students; and abusing special ed kids who cant, and teaching that to their students is NOT A GOOD VALUE.
Will T. And Ronan and everyone else is completely right in saying that this public school needs to be straightened out. If not completely redone. Good luck angry friend, you are so brave in standing up for these kids; and remember: if your ignored there you'll always have a few listening ears here.
*hugs*
~KG
(January 13, 2017 - 1:39 pm)
Thank you, KG for your help! I will spread the word, no doubt. Tonight - or sometime this weekend - I shall write a letter to the Principal concerning what has been going on, and personally give him this letter Tuesday. I will then ask him, once he has finished, what he shall do about the issue. Our Principal clearly knows what is going on, but if I, as a student, give him the facts on pen and paper, he will react. If he does not show me respect, I will bring it to the School Board members.
Everything I will state in the paper will be fact, maybe even quotes from students themselves. I will tell him this behavior is NOT acceptable and should not happen.
And that anonymous article thing I mentioned? Once I decide what the topic should be - it will be on more than just this treatment, but the school itself - I will write and publish it.
Thank you for understanding and feeling so strong on the topic, KG. Also, weren't you leaving the CB, or did you decide to stay?
(January 13, 2017 - 7:46 pm)
Ya I'm leaving but not permentally, just for a few months or so;) I am actually supposed to be gone right now but I'm still posting on the threads that I think are really worth it:)
And yes writing to the principal is an awesome idea. If he doesn't respond remember to bring that to the school board if it does comes to it. It could be a major boost to your argument;)
(January 13, 2017 - 9:52 pm)
I think you should convince some of your closest friends first. It's always easier to do things when you have friends backing you up.
Once you have your friends, together you can begin your crusade against meanness and ignorance.
I would also suggest showing your peers just how important it is to you. Try not to yell, but give them pure passion. People are often taken aback by that and may realize how horrible they're being and how important it is.
I think you' ve already begun doing both of my suggestions, but I wasn't sure, so here they are.^
(January 14, 2017 - 9:08 am)
AJ, thanks for the suggestions. The friend who I first mentioned in the main post knows about it, and we really wanted to talk to the Principal, but lost our nerves. A small group of my friends also knew what happened, and we all wanted to stop that. Yet, no one really knows how deep my anger goes, and all the issues I am seeing.
So I guess that's where the second step goes into place, I need to act in that case. Thank you again, AJ!
(January 14, 2017 - 2:27 pm)
You're welcome!
That was the kindest thank you I've ever received.
(January 14, 2017 - 5:42 pm)
Guys, I decided it's time I reveal. Not for anything special, just because I feel if I am to help anyone, I cannot hide in fear. So at the end of this letter, I show my CB name. This letter is addressed to the Principal, students, and staff of my school, but my Principal will see it first. Please tell me if there is anything I should edit before I reveal this on Tuesday to my school. Thank you for all the kind words and advice, this means a lot to me.
[Letter Starts Here]
To Whom it May Concern,
I have discovered a serious conflict within [school title blocked out], relating to the treatment of special ed students. It became clear a few months ago that these students were being treated differently, both by their teachers and classmates.
One example was through that of the paraeducator. A young elementary student had fallen and hurt herself, and the paraeducator has mocked the child, laughing and pretending to cry as the hurt student was doing. No action was done to comfort the child or see if she was okay. When the issue was discussed, the solution was to keep the child inside by herself during recess, acting as a punishment. This should not have happened - a paraeducator is one person who a special ed child is supposed to trust. How can they feel safe if the one person they respect within a school has thrown them out?
Another example of the situation is this: two high school students had been working together on an assignment where they had to copy word for word what the text had said. One of these students was in special ed, the other not. Once the papers had been graded, the two students compared scores and realized the one who was not in special ed had been marked down for the same copy work. Once this student asked the teacher why that was, the received answer was simply, “I expect you to write more due to your higher reading level compared to your classmates”. The student who was marked down then discussed this with the other classmate, and offense was taken. The teacher had basically called the special ed student “stupid” for he had a lower reading level than the other student. Again, nothing was done about this.
Another serious issue is being presented in the high school through the elder classes. There are a select group of unique individuals in middle school who have been treated terribly by a few high schoolers. They are constantly being called annoying, stupid, and weird. This form of bullying has been done behind their backs, leaving words to be harshly spread about those students. The key is, the students being bullied are also in special ed, and are all brilliant in their ways. When asked to stop the bullying by fellow classmates, the students just continue. This needs to be managed, yet nothing has been done. Teachers have been present when these things have been said, but action to stop the verbal bullying has stopped.
The final situation discussed here takes place in the elementary once again. A single special ed student had been purposely annoyed by the classmates who did not like her. This was always done in front of their teacher, but he would do nothing. At last, action was taken to allow her to sit where she wished, but that did not stop the bullying to completion. In fact, this made it worse in ways, since this student was given special privileges that the others wanted. The real solution would have been to talk to the students, yet this was never done.
There is a single request for whoever may read this: take action. Your students - some of the most unique individuals ever met - are being bullied by both staff and students. The motto of the school is claimed to be, “small and mighty” yet, if you will not take action by a “small” student requesting this, then there is no “mighty” in the school. Action is simple to do, whether you may be the principal, a teacher, or a student. All three groups will read this letter in time, and it will take unity to fix the issue presented. If no real action is taken to place before the end of the semester, I will bring this letter, and others, publicly to parents. No one wants their children in an environment where they are being brought down. Again, the request is simple. Solve it, and all will go well.
Sincerely,
Ashlee G.
(January 14, 2017 - 5:45 pm)
I knew it was you because you didn't reply, but that's really not the point here. Honestly, I think you'll probably just be scoffed at if you bring it to anyone in the school, but maybe informing the parents of the special ed kids or even someone higher in authority like your mayor might work. Good luck and please let us know how the situation works out!
(January 14, 2017 - 6:54 pm)
Yeah, I kinda figured it might be a bit obvious since I tend to reply on most threads. But, as you said, point aside. I think you're right, the thing is, two of the situations stated were of my own siblings, I just did not say that within the letter. The other two are of friends of mine, and one of the parents of those kids actually works at the office of the school. I see your point, though, and I will have to consider bringing the issue to the mayor. My only problem with that is he is a strong supporter of the school. I'll think over my next move, thanks for the advice and help, HAB! I will update you guys on Tuesday with whatever action I decide to do.
(January 14, 2017 - 7:37 pm)
:') that. was. beautiful. Ashlee (I guessed who you were after reading a few of your other posts;) I dont think you should change it in anyway. Its perfect, straight to the point and just.....great, its great. Please tell us how it goes.
Many hugs,
~KG
P.S. say hi to the special ed kids for me, and tell them that they're awesome;)
(January 14, 2017 - 9:26 pm)
Wow, thank you, KG! I promise I will tell you guys how it goes on Tuesday, and I will tell the special ed kids hello. They'll really appreciate it! :D
(January 14, 2017 - 11:54 pm)
The only critique I can offer is that it may sound a bit smoother if you write, "It became clear a few months ago that these students were being treated differently by both their teachers and classmates."
All I did was get rid of the comma and switch around the words 'by' and 'both'.
Other than that, I think this should really work! I wish you luck in your efforts, Ashlee.
(January 14, 2017 - 8:49 pm)
Will do, thank you, Kestrel! I'll fix that error right now. I appreciate the support, this is really hard to go against the norm, but it's for a good cause I believe.
(January 14, 2017 - 11:56 pm)
This is a really brilliant letter, Ashlee. I really don't see anything wrong with it.
I hope everything goes well on Tuesday.
#MayAshleeBringJustice
(January 15, 2017 - 3:07 pm)