hi- regardi

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hi- regardi

hi- 

regarding the 'furries' thread. i'd just like to apologize. i'm still not going to come out under my real cb name because of an intense fear of backlash. i can't do the same as wildwolf b/c i'm still not a big cb name - maybe i used to be, but i'm not anymore. 

i just want to say i'm sorry. i didn't realize that the comments were hurtful. i was expressing that i felt genuinely scared because i've had some really bad experiences with other furries in the past. i didn't mean that to any of the people in the thread. everyone on the cb is amazing and the cb is full of genuinely some of the most amazing people i've ever met in my life. i'm so sorry if it felt like i was attacking you. i'm sorry if any of you on the thread felt hurt in any way. i'm sorry that i didn't think twice before i posted. 

this sets my decision in stone. the cber behind "uriel" will not be revealed. ever. even if paradise finishes.  

 

-- uriel -- 

submitted by uriel
(May 17, 2024 - 4:58 pm)

back to the Pudding's Place

We respect your decision and thank you for posting this <3

submitted by CelineBurning Bright, doing laundry ack~
(May 17, 2024 - 7:23 pm)

thank you. <3 

 

-- uriel --  

submitted by uriel
(May 17, 2024 - 7:45 pm)

i will be writing more later but - basically, i forgive you, everyone makes mistakes and shouldn't be defined by them, and i promise we won't hold it against you even if you do say your actual CB name. i don't think it's fair to never let yourself get the credit you deserve (i've been reading the old paradise and it's really good! very cool atmosphere in particular) because of one mistake, and i promise you won't be remembered entirely for your one mistake even if you are a smaller cber (i mean you're writing a whole ski lodge heh)

submitted by Blackfooted Bobcat
(May 18, 2024 - 2:39 pm)

hey bobcat - thank you sm, i appreciate it!! i love paradise in particular. (cue the plug: reboot is up and i'm looking to take 2 more people! closes in like 2 days) nontheless, i'm still going to choose to remain anonymous. maybe that decision will change haha 

 

-- uriel --  

submitted by @bobcat
(May 18, 2024 - 8:56 pm)

You were very brave for owning up to it and I agree with BB that you shouldn't not take credit for paradise because of one mistake.paradise is seriously amazing.

i also want to say that I'm terrible at confrontation so I tried to word my comment very carefully so if I hurt your feelings I'm so very sorry.I forgive you. 

submitted by Cocoa cat
(May 18, 2024 - 9:02 pm)

hey cocoa cat- 

thank you, i really appreciate it! paradise is probably one of my better works and i'm quite proud of the direction it will go to. i'll still get credit - just under "uriel" rather than my actual CB name.

it's okay - my feelings weren't hurt, i was just mad at myself for not realizing that my words could've actually hurt people. thank you for standing up for everyone else, i really appreciate that - i'm sorry if i made the cb an unspace safe, even if it was just with a single comment.

<3

 

-- uriel --  

submitted by uriel
(May 18, 2024 - 10:41 pm)

hi uriel! thanks so much for apologizing, and im so excited for the paradise reboot btw!

also sorry that some comments were a little mean, i hope no feelings were hurt. <33 

submitted by anastasia
(May 19, 2024 - 8:03 am)

Its alright uriel! I do not know much about what happened, but I'm glad you apologized.Personally, I don't know alot about furries and am unsure what line they do or do not cross, but we the Cbers still forgive you. I understand being afraid of things we do not understand, that is part of what makes us human.

submitted by Luna silvermoon
(May 19, 2024 - 5:39 pm)

it's ok, i forgive you. i get it, everyone has their moments. and i completely understand about not wanting to post under your real CB name.

submitted by endless_parodies, age PANGENDER!, any pronouns!! <3
(May 20, 2024 - 4:23 pm)