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A bit of help please?

 

Ok, so I have a confession to make. 

I don't like living in the USA or the American culture  

I think it started getting a bit out of hand when my family and I came back from Mexico recently. I asked when would be the next time we go on an international trip and my dad said probably by the time we move, which is in about three years. THREE YEARS! I can't wait that long and until then I am kind of stuck in the US. I later decided the next best thing to actually moving outside the US was getting dual citizenship, and I chose Latvia because I have clear ancestry there and they have incredibly convenient citizenship by descent laws. However, because I'm a minor, I can't do it on my own. My mom is only willing to let me do it if I can convince her why it would be a good idea. I already wrote the paper a week ago and she is still not getting around to reading it. HOW CAN I deal with this situation?

submitted by Sinusoidal
(March 12, 2024 - 3:40 pm)

Okay, so I do see where you're coming from. Every culture has some things that make it sometimes disagreeable to be a part of. As someone who hasn't always lived within the US, I agree with you that there are quite a few things that aren't ideal. But it's not that bad! There are so many basic things that many other countries lack, like police forces you can rely on (in some countries, they're really corrupt and even dangerous); democracy (which I think is a must in any country!!); clean water (in Mexico, you get super sick if you drink from the tap, so drinking water has to be filtered, and you can't freely eat salads in restaurants, and you need to be ultra-sure your plates and glasses are dry before you eat or drink from them); clean air; a relatively high level of safety; people who care about the environment to at least some degree (again, in Mexico, forests are regularly burned and trees are cut down for no reason); and so on. There are a lot of plain enjoyable things too, like beautiful small towns,  Fourth of July traditions, country music, forests that turn colors in the autumn, winters with snow, maple syrup, fun movies, a long and ancient history of democracy and equality... It's really not a bad place to live. 

If you don't want to live here, though, I'd suggest enjoying the good things about it while you can, while making plans to live somewhere else. You don't need to rush into a decision right away, though! As for convincing your mom, she probably won't have time to read a paper; moms are usually pretty busy people (at least, mine is lol). Maybe just talk to her about it? Either way, hope this helps, and good luck!

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