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Hi lovelies! <3
Hi lovelies! <3
Do any of y'all remember me? I was typing in a comment recently when I saw one of my locations I used under this pseudonym, so I decided to pop in with one of my threads.
For the newer CBers- hello! <3 I'm a CBer using an alias to spread some love, without shame for the cheesiness. I made a few threads just for some hopeful/encouraging messages. Now I'm back!
First, I'd just like to ask: how are all of you doing right now? Any answer than pops into your head is perfectly fine- fine to think, fine to feel. I know everyone is tired of hearing about how things are different and uncertain and all of that, but really, it's the truth! There's lots of frustration going around. You have every right to feel lonely, angry, or sad, and you're welcome to talk about it. It's also important to understand that feelings like this aren't bad; they're simply part of being human. They only get to be really bad when you squash them down and don't face them. Frustration is easier to deal with when you acknowledge it- and not just frustration, but everything!
Remember, whatever you're going through, you're not alone! We've all had to change, and we've all suffered in different ways. But there is always someone who shares your experience... and there's always someone who has it worse.
I'm not very good at advice, and I don't think I'm any good at motivation... but I like to try anyways. I think it's important! I feel good knowing I've shared something that might help someone. I hope I was, or am, able to help you. I'm doing my best to spread some love.
Sorry this is short! I'll try to keep posting on this thread.
Love you all! <3 Hope
submitted by Hope the Dove, I'm Back! <3
(September 27, 2020 - 9:49 am)
(September 27, 2020 - 9:49 am)
@Joan (and I'm so, so sorry about the late reply!)- I doubt I could give you better advice than Anonymous did. I'm just going to piggyback off something they said: a diagnosis doesn't make you a different person. You're still Joan B. of Arc, and new information doesn't change that. I'm actually relly proud of you for mentioning this here! No doubt that took courage.
@Leo- first, it's awesome to see you again! ^^ Second, there's some advice I want to give to the both of you.
Based off of what y'all said, trusting that people will respond well to what you say isn't the problem- it's just coming out and saying it. And that's really tough! So, here's some advice for how to start the conversation.
~Think about a good time to bring up what it is you'd like to say. Prepare in your head what you would like to say.
~Give yourself a pep talk. If you're with someone you trust, you know that you won't be met with negativity.
~Think about how it will be once it's over- more than likely, you'll be relieved, and proud of yourself for starting the conversation. Hold on to that feeling! Only good things can come from what you're going to do.
And from there it's just taking a deep breath and spitting it out. It's scary! You're both right to be nervous. Just focus on the result of the conversation. It's unlikely you'll be turned down or laughed at or anything- this is a step in the right direction, and it's going to help others understand what you're facing, or what you've learned. You two are both brave and wonderful and I know you can do this! <3
Hopefully some new, cheesy message will be coming later today for everyone. <3
(October 17, 2020 - 2:35 pm)
Thank you so much, Hope!
I also have a quick question for the Admins.
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(October 18, 2020 - 8:11 am)
You're very welcome! I'm so glad I could help. <3
I'd like to talk about things that we write off as "cheesy" or "cliche". Do you ever wonder why people say things like "You matter" or "God loves you" or "Don't give up"? More than likely, you haven't. We hear this kind of stuff all the time. So why do people say it?
It's simple. Because it's the truth! We've just heard it so many times we don't bother to really understand. Yes, you matter. No, you shouldn't give up. It's easier to shrug these things off and call them cheesy than to allow ourselves to unerstand what it really means.
So, be sure to listen! People who tell you that you matter usually are looking to help you. (I know because I'm one of them!) It's a sign that they care about you. There are lots of people in the world who are just looking to be helpful- so don't be afraid to give them the chance. :)
(October 18, 2020 - 10:30 am)
This is very wise Hope. I feel like this is a very important message right now. I also think people should think about really appreciating it more when people say that they will pray for you. I'm not super religious, but this is really a great thing for anyone of any religon to say to anyone else because it means that they care about your well being so much that they would ask their verison of god/gods to help/bless you. Just a thought!
(October 19, 2020 - 10:59 am)
I don't want this thread to die!
(October 25, 2020 - 11:01 am)