Life isn't Black
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Life isn't Black
Life isn't Black and White
At camp, one night, I learned about Black and White ideas. That is where you have two things, and nothing in between. Ex: Coke and Pepsi.
So, I was thinking about how life isn't really in black on white; how there is so much in between. What experiences do you have with the things in the middle? What do you think on 'black and white'?
I know that this is a very serious subject, but I just decided to post this.
submitted by Jack-a-Nat, Natalie
(July 19, 2016 - 6:07 pm)
(July 19, 2016 - 6:07 pm)
Race isn't black and white either.
Think back to your unit on the Martin Luther King times. Whites had this bathroom, blacks had that. Whites sat in the front of the resterant, blacks sat in the back.
You know.
AND THEN, some of us had NO bathroom to use, NO place in the resterant, had to walk instead of taking the bus, had to order TAKEOUT instead of sitting down.
Imagine the humiliation where you don't belong anywhere on the bus. You can't sit in the front. You can't sit in the back.
The inconvenience of not being allowed to use the better OR worse bathroom.
And to think that some of us complained about not getting the best seat at the resterant.
(July 20, 2016 - 6:17 am)
(July 20, 2016 - 12:06 pm)
Hmmm... I kinda know what you mean... But I kinda don't. Would you explain a bit more? Is it basically two ideas that are opposites?
(July 20, 2016 - 6:48 am)
'Black and White' means that there are two ideas, and nothing in between. Ex: Chocolate and Vanilla; Coke and Pepsi; M & Ms and Skittles; etc.
Pavlavla says 'okah'. OK, Ah. She understands and agrees. I hope that you do too.
(July 20, 2016 - 3:43 pm)
The world isn't black and white, because everyone has different ideas. The world is in shades of gray.
(July 20, 2016 - 12:01 pm)
Well, 'black and white' doesn't really mean opposites, it means like, things are either one exact way or the other, there's no 'in between or having both.' Life is also in gray, but also color, too. As for experiences, I admittedly kinda thought people were pretty one-sided. I met several that aren't at all. Black and white can be okay, but I like inbween or both the best.
(July 20, 2016 - 2:48 pm)
I think it is physically impossible for the world to be "black and white". Just impossible. Everyone shares different views on life and things, therefore, being thousands, millions, even billions of shades of gray. And on the coke and pepsi thing... you get gray by combining the two. And... It doesn't taste too good, I've tried. xD
Anyways, back on the serious topic. An example of gray within black and white is choices. This is the most common example, from what I have seen, just in a different context. You can choose to steal the cookie, buy/leave it, or eat it on the spot and pay later (or bring a new cookie) which would be gray.
Or take math. That subject you sometimes hate, sometimes love (which goes into the final example). A math equation, people say can only be "right" or "wrong", but this is false. As funny as it is, take this question and answer: "To change centimeters to meters you _." Answer: "Take out centi." Sorry, I am just full of humor today. But looking at it, it is true. That is a gray shade. People expect you to say the correct answer or the wrong answer. Not something that is... true but wrong nonetheless.
Finally, emotions cannot be black and white. Take a friend, for example. You can like that person for their loyalty, friendliness, etc. but dislike him/her for a flaw. So toward one person, you can feel 2 or more emotions at once. Gray shades, I say. Same goes toward your own emotions that you feel.
(July 20, 2016 - 5:00 pm)
Ironically, I was just reading "Where Did You See Her Last?" (All the Wrong Questions, book 2) and they were discussing that-- how one of the characters thought it was just good and evil in a war, but really it's so much more complicated. There aren't always just the bad guys and the good guys, contrary to Disney or Grimm. Everybody's got their history or their reasons and in the end, they aren't evil-- they're misunderstood or thinking in the wrong way. People aren't black and white-- they're grey. Look at Severus Snape. (I won't elaborate for fear of spoilers, but those of you that have finished the series know what I mean.)
@Mei Here's another allusion-- I was reading this book called Inside Out and Back Again about an immigrant from Korea right after the war. It was written in free verse, and in one of the poems she discussed the segregation idea, how the cafeteria she went to was separated into white and black, and how they never considered there would be someone in between. She ended up eating in the teacher's classroom because there was nowhere for her to sit.
(July 20, 2016 - 7:39 pm)
Actually, St. Owl, Inside Out and Back Again is a stunning book and I recommend you all read it, BUT the character is from Vietnam. My mom is Vietnamese, and she just read it and says it is incredibly accurate to her experience and life in Vietnam and such.
(July 20, 2016 - 10:14 pm)
You are absolutely correct, Abi. It was late when I wrote that, obviously I wasn't remembering right.
(July 21, 2016 - 7:53 pm)
See, things like that just make me so angry and sad at the same time. The. World. Is. Messed. Up.
Like the second book you mentioned, how can people be... So cruel. So cruel. First of all, there shouldn't be segregation at all, but there is. Not just in races, but in religions, beliefs, personalities, ages, even disabilities like Autism.
Anyways, getting off topic. But I couldn't agree more. The world is gray. Very gray, with many, many, shades of gray. And sadly, there can't be anything in between the gray itself. What I am saying is we have black and white, representing numerous things. Mainly being, one way or the other. No in between. We also got gray, which is that in between like you explained. But that poses so many problems.
Honestly, we need a world of not black or white, or gray only, we need one that is... Yellow. Sorry, that just came to mind. I almost said blue, but that is seen as a sadder color. Anyways, yellow. If the world was of only yellow, everything would be fair, honest, and just. There wouldn't be segregation, pointless arguments, political wars, wars at all, you know, a perfect society. Sadly, people like to see it as one way or the other. Pathetic.
(Sorry, I just rant on about these things. They are something very touching that I will go off on extremely easily.)
(July 20, 2016 - 10:15 pm)
Yay! My color is yellow!
(July 21, 2016 - 11:44 am)
Yep *grins* a yellow world is a happy world.
(July 21, 2016 - 4:32 pm)