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Chatterbox: Down to Earth
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This is a true story.
I don't want you to comment on the way I write it. I'm not using my writing skills right now. I would just like you to mull over it with me. Please help me make sense of it.
As you may know (although you probably don't, becuase it seems that nobody looked at the thread I made), I am in New Hampshire right now. I went to a paint-your-own-pottery place with my sisters, mom, and grandma. I finished my piece before they did, so I asked to walk home.
"Are you sure?" asked my mom. "It's a forty minute walk."
"Yes. I want to do it." I left the shop and started walking back to the place where we're staying.
Let me give you some background: In March, we were here to catch the end of the ski season. It was my mom's first time skiing. After her first day, she wanted to buy new socks, because her feet had been very cold. I offered to go with her. She looked on Google Maps for a nearby ski gear store. The first one we tried was closed. The second one was open. I'm not going to tell you what it was called, of course. Inside the store an oldish, tattered-looking woman sat behind the desk. My mom asked her to help her find some new socks. After she had found the socks, tried on a pair of snowpants that didn't fit, and paid, she started talking to the woman. They had a very long conversation. I stared into space and walked around the cluttered, messy store while they chattered. After we exited the shop, I asked my mom why she had talked with the woman for so long. "She's lonely," said she. It turns out that a few years ago her old space, which was twice as big and had a second floor, was taken away from her by a big company that sells the same things she does. She runs the store by herself, except in the Summer, when she hires someone to help her.
Anyway, I was jogging home when I saw her store. "She's lonely," my mom had told me. Lonely. I wanted her to feel better. I decided that I would go in and tell her that my mom had come in a month or two ago and bought some socks, and I was wondering how she was doing. I thought this was a good idea at first. When I stopped in front of the store, I had to stop and think. I considered the fact that I might make her agitated. I considered the fact that I might confuse her. I considered the fact that I was really scared, but that it was the right thing to do. So, taking a deep breath, I opened the door. A bell rang. I didn't see anyone behind the counter, but I saw some movement by a tent display. The oldish woman whose name I do not know peered out from behind a corner.
"Can I help you?"
I looked into her face. Her face was very square and her teeth looked dark and uncared for. She wore a knit blue sweater.
"Yes," I said, putting on a cheery voice and friendly smile. "Um, my mom came in here a few months ago to buy some socks."
"Socks?"
"No, um, you had a conversation with her and I was, uh, just wondering how you were doing."
"Did you come in here recently?"
"Um, a few months ago...in March. To buy some socks. I was wondering if you were alright."
"You...want to buy more socks?"
"No, I'm fine, thanks."
I left the store.
I wonder why I went in in the first place. I wonder if it was the right idea.
(April 29, 2016 - 4:48 pm)
Yes!! That was a very good idea. If that was me, I would have never done that because I am much too shy. That's so thoughtful that you thought of her. I would never think to go in there and see how she was doing. I think it was a great idea!
(April 29, 2016 - 6:29 pm)
TOP!
(April 29, 2016 - 6:30 pm)
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(April 30, 2016 - 6:01 am)
That was very sweet, Otr. *hugs* It's her own fault she passed up someone to talk to.
(April 30, 2016 - 7:23 am)
Thank you!
But...It wasn't her fault...I think she was confused.
*Hugs Galore*
(April 30, 2016 - 4:01 pm)
OTR, I would never have been able to do that!!!!! That was monumentally and uniquely kind of you. :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :) :)
I can understand the woman's bewilderment, though-- just imagine yourself in her place!
This actually does sound like a real story-- maybe you should use your little adventure to write a book! Or a short story, or even a poem. :)
(April 30, 2016 - 5:17 pm)
Yeah, well I would be too. Seriously, if you're a lonely woman who owns a shop and has almost 0 people to talk to, and then a kid pops in and is all like, "Um, my mom bought socks from you several months ago … and I thought you would like somebody to talk to .…"
(April 30, 2016 - 7:07 pm)
Yes, that was a nice thing to do! I couldn't anyway, because my mom would NEVER let me walk anywhere alone. Also, that does sound like something in a movie!!
(May 1, 2016 - 6:53 am)
Aw, that's so sweet! I think that you did the right thing, even if it didn't work out completely. She had every right to be confused... that sort of thing only makes sense when you're inside the head of the perpetrator...
(May 1, 2016 - 8:44 am)
Over the Rainbow, I think that was... wonderful. I never knew what a kind, caring, thoughtful person you are. That was so nice, to go check on the lady and see if she wanted to talk. True, she was confused, but I belive that everything happens for a reason, and that there was some reason that happened. OtR, you are a tzadekes, (tzah-DAY-kes) a Hebrew word that means a kind person you does good things just to help someone. (I am assuming you are a girl. If you are a boy, then you are a tzaddik). You are an incredible person.
(May 3, 2016 - 5:37 pm)
Thank you so much. That means a lot to me. I've heard people say it as mensch, but people usually joke about Yiddish, because it can sound funny to our American ears, so I like your term better. I've only actually heard the word tzaddik, not the female version. I suppose there has to be a female equivalent...
(May 3, 2016 - 7:26 pm)
I think mensch is basicly the same thing. Literaly, tzaddik and tzadekis mean 'righteous one'. Mensch means 'one with integrity and honor'. I guess its basicly the same...
(May 4, 2016 - 8:27 am)
No offense, but I don't really see what's to mull over. You went into a store, tried to talk to an old lady, and she was confused because she hadn't seen you for two months. Was it the right idea? That varies by person, obviously. I never would have done that, in fact I probably never would've asked to walk home in the first place. Socialization is not my strong suit. I think it's great that you tried to do it, and even better that you failed, because now you know - if you didn't know before - that not everyone can be a friend and certainly not everyone's worth talking to.
(May 4, 2016 - 4:42 am)
I don't agree with that motto…
(May 4, 2016 - 3:13 pm)
Why?
(May 6, 2016 - 5:31 am)