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#1- im genderfluid. still use xe/xyr most of the time, but all pronouns are ok for me
#2- uhhh so i have a really big secret im keeping with another person but i can't tell y'all yet or whatever and yeah. um anywaysssss its a really big thing and i want y'all to be supportive...ok? please do.
#3- well sorry for the mentions, but im going on a hiatus...again? yes, again. sorry. schoolwork and stuff. y'know. life.
#4- i've been having some pretty bad nightmares recently...like as in super bad. sometimes i force myself to stay up just so the images won't play in my head. its like creepy. *shivers* tell me if you want more details.
so um yeah!
-nightsky-
OMG VIM JUST SAID IDCKZ? I don't care krazy? I don't care crazy- WHAT. THE. HECK. VIM. go to your room and think about what you've done.
*is terrifyingly calm*
<AAAHH>
submitted by NDF/NightSky
(February 25, 2021 - 12:41 am)
(February 25, 2021 - 12:41 am)
Its okay, we can share the pain of having horiible nightmares,mine involing a blank face hopping out of my mirror. I understand. Anyway,wuts hiatus?
(February 25, 2021 - 12:08 pm)
Hiatus means taking a break from something.
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Night, I'll be sorry to see you go (...again) but I definitely understand. *hugs* I hope your situation gets better with the nightmares. And thanks for letting us know about the pronouns! About the big secret: I can promise I'll be supportive of you. If you did something horrible, well, everyone deserves second chances. And sometimes third and fourth ones. *hugs* If it's something about you, heck yeah I'll be supportive of you. I can't really think of a situation where I wouldn't be supportive of you at the moment?
In the months you've been here, we've definitely been through a lot. But I can say with certainty that you have grown, in these months, into such a beautiful, wonderful, kind, person. You are one of my CBFs, and therefore, I'll miss you and I love you.
Have a great hiatus and (hopefully) see you soon! Don't forget to pop in occasionally <3
~Lumi
(February 25, 2021 - 3:20 pm)
Hope you get better, NDF/NightSky! Have a good hiatus.
(February 25, 2021 - 3:48 pm)
I have a suggestion you didn't ask for! I also used to have terriable insomnia, but I got this app called Headspace about a month ago, and it's helped so much! Headspace is a meditation app, and it has a sleep section which has tons of different types of meditations/of things you can do to fall asleep. Hope you can try it! Also, thank you for telling us about your genderfluid-ness/pronouns, I'm proud of you! Visit us soon!
(February 25, 2021 - 6:19 pm)
Have a good hiatus! :3 (Also, I don´t want to seem annoying but what is imsommia?(Sorry if I spelt it wrong)
(February 25, 2021 - 6:39 pm)
Insomnia is the inability to sleep. Sometimes it's chronic (which means that you can't get rid of it, because it's not due to an outside factor), but there are lots of other causes of insomnia, like stress (among other things). To break it down, in Latin, "somni" is sleep, and you probably know the prefix "in-" means not, like "inability."
(February 25, 2021 - 9:04 pm)
believe me i know what your talking about. when we have bad dreams like that, the best thing to do is take a break from something. and about the secret, just remember were all your friends
(February 26, 2021 - 7:47 am)
Bye, Name Buddy! btw, I totally get the nightmares. I’ve had the exact same thing. It really helped to
do some yoga before bed
(believe it or not) do a kid’s activity. book
Draw
or Color.
Apparently my Captcha is digging the vaccine. <vacdg>
(February 26, 2021 - 8:51 am)
I'm sorry to see you go, (for now) Skys! Hope you do well in school and in your life in general. About your insomnia, I would recommend melatonin, which is a vitamin to help you go to bed.
<3
-Star Princess/Eulalia
(February 26, 2021 - 11:11 am)
our hiatus soon, but it is totally your choice. <3 We'll miss you, and I hope things get better in general.
I don't know what having so many nightmares is like but I know what it's like to be afraid to go to bed. I very recently fell asleep at 5 AM due to my (chronic) insomnia and the next night it took quite a bit of urging from my mother to finally try to fall asleep because I was afraid that I would lie in bed for hours again, never falling asleep.
I know this isn't your problem and I have no idea if it will help with nightmares. but you can try self-guided mindful meditations -- I can elaborate on what that means in another post if you'd like.
it was really brave to tell us you were genderfluid! I sincerely apologize if I slip up and use they/them for you again. And no pressure to share the secret, we understand, but I hope that whatever it is gets better! <3
Saffron says "zokoo" . . . now's not the time! Wait for the ATLA/LOK thread, sily!
(February 26, 2021 - 8:06 pm)
It's really okay if you use they/them- again, all pronouns are welcome! Everyone, I swear I have been reading y'all's- just that I don't have a lot of time to respond.
(February 27, 2021 - 1:25 am)
Oh, we'll miss you! I hope everything gets better <3 And about the secret, we'll be supportive, whatever it is. :) Have a good hiatus!
(February 27, 2021 - 10:17 am)