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Friend Problems.....
Okay, so there is this guy, and I don't know if he likes me or not! Can you guys help?
Thank you.
submitted by Anonymous
(November 9, 2018 - 7:19 pm)
(November 9, 2018 - 7:19 pm)
Describe him. His actions that make you think he does/doesn't, whether you like him back... I'm your psychiatrist or however you spell it now. :)
(November 10, 2018 - 12:47 pm)
Well, we have a lot of classes together. During study hall (we sit across from each other), he looks up at me and then looks down. But, in other classes, he doesn't talk to me. Also, he always tries to get me to join chess club with him. What are some other signs that he might like me?
Thanks, Rogue!
(November 11, 2018 - 9:11 am)
(November 16, 2018 - 12:13 pm)
No problem!
Ummm I have no experience with relationships and if a guy flirted with me or showed signs of special affection I would miss it 100% but! I would imagine that if he keeps inviting you to stuff and often looks at you then I would guess that he likes you a little bit more than usual. Also if he gets really fidgety around you in particular, then that probably means he likes you but he's trying not to like you because he afraid of getting hurt BECAUSE HE DOESN'T KNOW IF YOU LIKE HIM.
Also, do you like him back?
(November 12, 2018 - 2:55 pm)
Yeah, I do. But I don't know for sure if he likes me or not, so I don't want to say anything about it to him!
(November 12, 2018 - 6:21 pm)
Aaaaghhh this is so confusing!
(November 12, 2018 - 6:26 pm)
What he's doing kinda sounds like something I would do... He probably either likes you and doesn't know how to talk to you or just wants more people in his chess club. Have you noticed him asking anyone else to join? It might be a good way to get to know him better, in any case. Also, do you think he knows you have classes besides study hall together?
I think you should tell him you like him when you're ready to. It doesn't have to be today. It doesn't have to be tomorrow, or next week, or next month. Take your time. From what I've heard, though, it's a good course of action.
(November 13, 2018 - 7:49 am)
No, he hasn't told anyone else to join chess club.
*Update: I walked into Study Hall and he walked up to me and said really loud "so, are you ready for that quiz today?"*
It was pretty weird.
(November 13, 2018 - 1:27 pm)
Honestly that sounds like something I would do. He's probably just as unsure and awkward about it as you are, and was just trying to think of some way to make conversation with you.
(November 14, 2018 - 8:41 pm)
I'm actually having a similar problem right now...
I'm not exactly sure what to tell you, but maybe you should try it. Like, join the chess club, talk to him more, get to know him. It might be easier to figure things out if you were closer.
Also try not to freak out. I'm currently overthinking my similar situation way to much, so don't do that :)
I'm also listening to this really cool song right now-- actually in Hebrew-- called משהו נעים לנשמה. It's actually really nice and calming. Reccomend! Sorry, that was kind of random.
Laylanie says xbox. That's her sixth word!
(November 13, 2018 - 2:49 pm)
I think he likes you. For sure. Or that’s just my inner georgia going all hopeless romantic on this situation. <3
The question is: do you like him??
<3 Fidelity
(November 14, 2018 - 7:36 am)
I think I am going to tell him I like him. I was thinking of asking a friend to tell him, so that I won't have to go through having to tell him myself. What do you guys think?
(November 14, 2018 - 5:07 pm)
Sorry if I'm late and you already told him, but I have some advice!
DON'T HAVE A FRIEND TELL HIM.
That's the worst possible thing you could do. As a person who has been through this scenario, I... just... please don't. It's much better if you say it yourself.
Again, if you haven't already told him, good luck! :D And remember, even if he doesn't like you, there are others that do! Like your friends and family! Like us! And the CB is always here to help.
(November 17, 2018 - 8:47 am)
Looks like three possibilities:
1. He likes you.
2. He wants to know you as friend.
3. He's a terrible person and is intentionally messing with you.
You'd probably know if it was the third, though, so chances are you've got a chance. Good luck!
pyzo
(November 14, 2018 - 5:26 pm)
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